Theme of the Week: Reciprocity
“What we do for ourselves dies with us, what we do for others lives beyond us.” - Albert Pike
Brother,
In the early days of my professional career, I was fortunate to have a group of four teammates who lived close to me. Each day, we would drive to training together. We called those drives “car school.”
At the time, I did not fully grasp the significance of those moments. What seemed like a simple routine: getting a ride to training, rain or shine - became something far more meaningful. Some days we were heading to sessions after a win, other days after a loss. Regardless of the result, we showed up together. Those shared experiences created a sense of consistency, connection, and support that extended well beyond the pitch.
What stands out most is not just the act of inclusion, but the way they showed up. They shared their experiences, frustrations, and perspectives openly. Much of it came through humour and light conversation, but beneath that was something deeper and more genuine: support, effort, empathy, and care. In many ways, they guided me, not only as an athlete, but as also a man navigating a new environment.
Over time, those relationships, and those daily drives - became one of the most meaningful parts of my experience in the game. While the pursuit of performance and personal achievement was important, it became clear that what mattered most was the connection and mutual support we built along the way.
I often felt that they did more for me than I could offer in return. But as our bond developed, I began to recognize that I had also become someone they could rely on - someone they could trust, speak to, and count on when needed. That reciprocity is what gave those relationships lasting value.
Looking back, I understand that while accomplishments serve a purpose, they are often temporary. The way you show up for others creates something that extends beyond you. Those same teammates continue to support me today, remain in my corner, and I would do the same for them without hesitation.
Sharing this experience serves to remind you of the positive impact you can have in another man's life, and the benefits of engaging in relationship and reciprocity.
Stay strong, even when you are not. It’s okay, you are not alone.
With love always,
Michael Argyrides
